{"id":1053,"date":"2024-09-05T20:45:29","date_gmt":"2024-09-05T20:45:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pulsemarketing.cloud\/Angelinafrost\/?p=1053"},"modified":"2024-09-09T22:17:44","modified_gmt":"2024-09-09T22:17:44","slug":"if-youre-going-to-judge","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pulsemarketing.cloud\/Angelinafrost\/2024\/09\/05\/if-youre-going-to-judge\/","title":{"rendered":"If You’re Going to Judge"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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\u201cNot only are bloggers suckers for the remarkable, so are the people who read blogs.\u201d<\/em> – Seth Godin<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

If You\u2019re Going to Judge\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2026judge others\u2019 choices, actions, and opinions kindly and broadmindedly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What would happen, if rather than resisting the resistance of those around you, you instead began to assume that others’ attitudes and opinions are less in opposition to your own, and more a reflection of where they are coming from?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As is so for all of us, we can only meet challenges based on our own limited perspectives, filter data from our unique responses to our unique databases of experience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When I think of how different \u2018reality\u2019 is for each one of us, I\u2019m often mind-blown by the fact that we manage to coexist at all. There\u2019s such a high margin for human error. Think about that for a minute..<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It so happens that all this hard stuff is what makes it all worth it for us, too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If any of this were easy, none of us would be learning anything. That doesn\u2019t mean it has to be hard either. Hard is relative. Hard is in our minds. It\u2019s a value judgment we place on our conditions or circumstances, but there\u2019s no real validity to the statement, \u201cIt\u2019s hard.\u201d \u201cIt\u2019s hard,\u201d is not a Truth. It is a reflection of your attitude and a complex system of conditioning, inheritance, and beliefs\/conclusions based on a set of experiences.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yes, sucky stuff happens. The sucky stuff of life isn\u2019t prejudiced. It cares nothing of our age, gender, race, class, style, political or sexual orientation, our favorite team, cola, or kind of pickup. Personal development, spiritual exploration, emotional literacy, and engaging community are what humans do naturally when times get challenging. Challenges will always be present. This is what it means to be in the cosmic university known as Humanity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ve been told, life doesn\u2019t necessarily get any easier, but if we\u2019re doing the work necessary to keep ourselves happy and well, or reclaim our joy and wellness, we<\/em> ‘get easier’.. and are simultaneously giving the greatest service we could to the world. People who are thriving are creating.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u201cNot only are bloggers suckers for the remarkable, so are the people who read blogs.\u201d – Seth Godin If You\u2019re Going to Judge\u2026 \u2026judge others\u2019 choices, actions, and opinions kindly and broadmindedly. What would happen, if rather than resisting the resistance of those around you, you instead began to assume that others’ attitudes and opinions are […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1478,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1053","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsemarketing.cloud\/Angelinafrost\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1053","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsemarketing.cloud\/Angelinafrost\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsemarketing.cloud\/Angelinafrost\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsemarketing.cloud\/Angelinafrost\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsemarketing.cloud\/Angelinafrost\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1053"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/pulsemarketing.cloud\/Angelinafrost\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1053\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1479,"href":"https:\/\/pulsemarketing.cloud\/Angelinafrost\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1053\/revisions\/1479"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsemarketing.cloud\/Angelinafrost\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1478"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsemarketing.cloud\/Angelinafrost\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1053"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsemarketing.cloud\/Angelinafrost\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1053"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsemarketing.cloud\/Angelinafrost\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1053"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}